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Rituality: Rituals for Self Wealth
“The focus here is not on ritual itself, but on opening up something in hearts and spirits that has been locked away so long that individuals can barely remember the source.” -Malidoma Patrice Some'- For much of my life, I felt disorganized and unsettled. I was scattered. To many, it seemed I was grounded, but inside, I was going through the motions, hoping I didn’t appear the way I felt inside. For much of my life, I felt disorganized and unsettled. I was scattered and unfo

M. Hakikah Shamsideen
Dec 7, 20257 min read


Grieving While Grown: The Quiet Sorrows of Midlife
"So you must not be frightened if a sadness rises up before you larger than any you have ever see; if a restlessness like light and cloud shadows, passes over your hands and over all you do. You must think that something is happening with you. That life has not forgotten you, that it holds you in its hand; it will not let you fall." Rainer Maria Rilke In late midlife, a quiet sorrow often weaves through our lives—one that lacks words or a formal farewell. It appears in the s

M. Hakikah Shamsideen
Oct 17, 20255 min read


When the Light Fades: Navigating Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) for Black Women in Midlife and Beyond
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is real—and often overlooked in Black women. Learn the signs and discover tools to care for yourself this season.

M. Hakikah Shamsideen
Oct 1, 20252 min read


Rest Is Reverence: The Power of Sabbath Season
Here is the second of four posts in my September series. The theme for this month is “ Living in Rhythm: Preparing Spirit, Home, and Body...

M. Hakikah Shamsideen
Sep 9, 20254 min read


Welcome To The Colored Section
My mother, Harlem native, traveled by train through the Jim Crow South, 1945. Crossing the Mason-Dixon line, she had to move to the colored section. She was literally entering enemy territory.

M. Hakikah Shamsideen
Jan 213 min read


I Shall Not Be Moved: The Purpose and Power of Black Grandmothers
There’s a particular kind of power that lives in the women who raised us.
A quiet, unshakable strength.
A rootedness you can’t always name, but you feel it every time you think of them.

M. Hakikah Shamsideen
Nov 19, 20254 min read
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